Monday, January 28, 2013

Thoughts on Preparing for a Mission


Lyndsie Loo,

First I LOVE you and I’m super happy for you!!!!  I hope you don’t mind, but I’m going to give you some mission tips.... I’m going to give them to you every week until you leave… A few here and a few there.  These are things that I wish I would have known before the mission. :)

1. Forget everything that you’ve heard about missions.  Missionaries.  Elders.  Sisters. Everything.  The mission is a 100% individual experience and absolutely different for everyone. 
2. You need to prepare well.  Spiritually, emotionally, and physically (as in the things that you need, your suitcase, etc.  The tips I have for you include all areas and I will specify before each tip. Ha. Ha. I like to organize things.... )  Today, I’m going to write about the spiritual preparation:
3. Read the Book of Mormon everyday for at least 15 minutes.  Love it, cherish it, understand it.
4. Pray sincerely (kneeling) every morning and every night. 
5. Take time to be still and feel the spirit.  Pay attention to what you feel.  Write it down in a journal.
5. Go to church every week.
6. Repent daily.  If there’s anything that you need to talk to your bishop about, do it.  And if not, repent in your prayers.  You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to try your best and realize that we are imperfect and need the help of God.  I have to repent and acknowledge my weaknesses everyday before walking out the door, so that I know I’m trying my best and relying on the Savior to make up the rest. 
7. Try your best to understand how you are using the gospel in you life right now, how it is blessing you, how it feels, how it guides you, and it’s basic principles so that you can clearly explain these things to the people that you meet and your investigators.  You don’t have to have a perfect knowledge of everything; just start paying attention to how having the gospel in your life feels and blesses you. 

That is all for now, Lyndsie, my dear!!  I hope I don’t seem too trite; I just want you to know the things that I wish I would have known and done before the mission.  

I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH and I want you to be a good missionary and have the best mission experience EVER!!! 

LOVE YOU!!!  MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
-Hermana Hermansen

Lyndsie!

You will LOVE the mission soooo much!!  I just know it. :)  You don’t need to worry about anything.  It’s going to be hard, but as long as you are obedient you will be Oh So Happy!!!! :)  Today, I just have some quotes that my mom has sent me, that perhaps you have already heard, but they are super great and have helped me a lot!! :)

“Many young women are serving missions.  Many are preparing to serve. Not because they aren’t married yet or have anything better to do, but because they have a desire to serve and are therefore called to the work.  The reason so many are going is because in the next generation, Heavenly Father will be sending His priesthood army to the earth and wants to send them to mothers who have been properly trained and taught in the gospel. What better training can a young woman have than a mission?”
                                                                                              -President Gordon B. Hinckley

“In the young women personal progress book, you will find these words: “You are a beloved daughter of Heavenly Father, prepared to come to earth at this particular time for a sacred and glorious purpose.” My dear young sisters, you need to know that you will experience your own adversity.  None is exempt. You will suffer, be tempted, and make mistakes. You will learn for yourself what every heroine has learned: through overcoming challenges come growth and strength.  It is your reaction to adversity, not the adversity itself, that determines how your life’s story will develop.  Sisters, we love you. We pray for you.  Be strong and of good courage. You are truly royal spirit daughters of Almighty God. You are princesses, destined to become Queens. Your own wondrous story has already begun. Your “once upon a time” is now.”
                                                                                                -President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
                                                                                                            -Marianne Williamson

“Whenever we feel lost, or insane, or afraid, all we have to do is ask for His help. The help might not come in the form we expected, or even thought we desired, but it will come, and we will recognize it by how we feel. In spite of everything, we will feel at peace.”
                                                                                                           -Marianne Williamson

“Success means we go to sleep at night knowing that our talents and abilities were used in a way that served others.”
                                                                                                            -Marianne Williamson

“We can always choose to perceive things differently. We can focus on what’s wrong in our life, or we can focus on what’s right.”
                                                                                                           -Marianne Williamson

Well, hope these help!!! I love you soooooo much!! Hope you have a great week preparing for the mission!! You will do great!  Enjoy your family these last days and prepare well!!!

LOVE YOU!!!
-Hermana SarAwe :)

P.S.  If you have the chance to watch the long Joseph Smith video from 2005, that would be helpful before you go, if you haven’t already seen it.  If you don’t have time, don’t worry because you might see it in the MTC. :)

Letter #54: January 28, 2013


Mom,

I’m excited to get my BD package. :)  You are such a great and wonderful mom!!  I miss you and I love you very much, too!!!  That’s crazy about Megan Brown!  Ha. Ha. I don’t know how in the world I could inspire someone to go on a mission, but hey, crazier things have happened!  We contacted some ladies from Brazil one time and sent the reference there through the church offices. Portuguese is really similar to Spanish, but it sounds super funny.

The past two weeks have been good. Crazy, but good. We moved pensions. We now live in our area. Our pension is TINY, but it works.  It’s behind the house of a less active lady.  We are trying to activate her.  She’s our new mamita and she doesn’t make inappropriate jokes, but she’s super funny and she loves us!

Last Saturday we had a really hard lesson..... This family is forming a reformation of a reformed Evangelical church.  They all had their bibles out and pulled out scripture after scripture after scripture.... It was awful.  We both left feeling completely exhausted and feeling like crap, but it was amazing how much it strengthened my testimony of being able to recognize the spirit by it’s fruits (Galatians 5:22-23).  They definitely did NOT have the spirit. And at the end of everything they asked, “And who pays your mission?......  Because we believe that the church should pay for missions and we’re looking for missionaries”...............  Uh...no thank you!  The world doesn’t need any more apostasy.

That’s cool that Brett and Rachel get to travel so much!!  I bet that they are really enjoying that!  How are Brandon and Lindsy?  And Cody, Nina, and Kids? Question. How do the condos work?  There is a family in the ward here that is planning to go to Utah next year and they want a hotel for two weeks in Salt Lake.  What are the names of condos they could look up? (No worries about info in English) Are there any cool historical church tours in Salt Lake?

So in February, our mission receives 50 new missionaries (all in one day), and 20-30 of them are sisters.  We have 18 sisters in the mission right now and two go home in February, so basically all the hermanas will be training and some will be training two at a time.... Our mission is pretty busy and crazy right now......

Anyway, I’m going to forward you the e-mails I’ve been sending to Lyndsie so you know that I’m still alive.  :) Can’t believe that she leaves in two weeks!!! 
I LOVE YOU ALL SOOOO MUCH!!!!

-Hermana Hermansen

P.S. I’m in the process of writing hand written letters to the grandkids and dad.

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Letter #53: January 16, 2013


Dearest mother,

Could you please forward my emails from now on?

So I’m writing on Tuesday because another transfer went by.  I am still with Hermana Ramos in Villa Norte.  This will be our 3rd transfer together.  That’s a record for sister missionaries!! Ha! Ha!  But I’m happy. :)  The work is slow, but we are doing our best to keep working hard... Oh Latinas… They are great!  There are many cultural differences between us… Oh!  We have a different hermana with us in the pension again!  She is a super cutie!!!  She is from Guatemala and reminds me of my old roommate Kelly Sue Peterson (Latina version).  Hermana Carcamo (from El Salvador) went home because she finished her mission.  The new hermana’s name is Hermana Guzman.  I like her a lot!

...But sadly, my companion and I have to move out this week because the President wants all of the companionships living solo and in their own sectors.  My companion and I have been living outside of our sector for the past two transfers.  Oh well, it will make the work more effective.  It is still really hot here.  I use sunscreen everyday and I sweat a lot. It’s great.

That’s cute that Alec called you mom! :)  He is a cutie!  I haven’t gotten his package yet, but my zone leaders just told me that they forgot to bring the mail from the office so I probably won’t get it until February... Ha! Ha!  Lame.  Tell Alec “Hi” back from me!! And tell him, “Sorry I’m awful at writing him back... it’s in my near future plans!”  

Our mission is preparing to receive 20-30 sister missionaries in the next transfer... There are 18 sisters now and 2 go home at the end of this transfer so EVERY single hermana will be training next transfer and some will be training 2 at the same time... aaaggghhhhh. Stressful to think about, but we don’t have any other choice... Ha!

I sometimes get frustrated with my own weaknesses.... but I’m still learning and growing and doing what I can. Oh!  I got 3 dearelders from Rachel this past week.  Tell her thanks for thinking that I’m good at Spanish.. I still don’t speak perfectly and have lots to learn, but I will definitely teach her what I know when I get home.  ;)  

Well, I’m out of time.

I LOVE YOU SOOOOO MUCH MOMMY DEAR AND EVERYONE ELSE TOO!!!!!!!

Can’t wait to see you all again!

Love,
Hermana Sarah

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Letter #52: January 7, 2013


 Dear Mommy,

I love you very, very much!!  Thank you for being my mommy and for loving me!  All is well.  :)  I’m troopin’ along and the Lord is helping me.  Today was fun!  We had a zone activity and played kickball and dodge ball and had a little hike and testimony meeting.  :)  I don’t have time to write much today because I wrote Lyndsie a lot, but I love you.  I know that I am in the right place at the right time.  Tell Laurel congrats!!  And tell Rachel Happy B-day!!  I forgot to tell her last week, but I was thinking of her all day....  I must be off now!!   LOVE YOU!!!

Love,
Hermana Sarah

P.S. I think I’m just going to wait until I get home for the dentist... I don’t want to have to deal with it here....

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Letter #51: December 31, 2012


Dear Mommy, 

I love you. 

Dear Family,

I LOVED talking with you all!!!!  I miss you all dearly, but I know that I’m where I’m supposed to be.  I’m glad that you all miss me, too.  Please continue to love me this much after I get home... Ha! Ha!  :)  Ok, I only have 20 minutes left, so I will try to write fast. (During these next couple weeks while Lyndsie is preparing for her mission, I’m going to be writing her first so my e-mails will probably be shorter...)

You have no idea how HAPPY it made me to be able to see you all and talk to you all!!  You are all glowing with the light of Christ, which makes me happy about all other things!  I LOVE you ALL soooooo much!!!  MY love and appreciation for every member of our family has grown incredibly from being separated for so long.... We have such a special family!!! I can´t even describe my feelings of how grateful I am for you all!  We are soooooo lucky to have each other. We have so many ignorant blessings.....  (side note from Sarah’s sister, Rachel and mom: we aren’t sure what she means her by ignorant blessings….we think something got lost in translation and she really means blessings that we take for granted…. :)

I LOVE YOU ALL SOOOO MUCH!!!!  THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for everything that you have done for me, but above all for just loving me and accepting me and all my weirdness...  I love you guys and I’m so happy that we have eternity together. :)

Thanks for getting the stuff for my package, Mom…. YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST!!!! Tell Alec is a cutie for sending me a little package... Ha! Ha!  Love him.  I’m out of time, but I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE you all!!!!!!!!

Love,
Hermana Hermansen